So new! =[

Hey guys!
So I'm so new to this! Or should I say I have been trying to find an SD for a year now and I have never been able to find one =[ I'm starting to wonder if I'm the problem.
I see a lot of women out there who are able to get an SD and it's so frustrating because I CNT SEEM TO GET ONE =/
Well I decided maybe it's because I'm not doing something right. I found out about this little community that you guys have and I was wondering if anyone out there would mind filling me in on the Do's and Don'ts of the sugar bowl.
I'm looking forward to hear from you guys!
Can't wait for the juicy tips!


Toodles! <3